Why Having a Friend Officiate Your Wedding Makes It Personal and Powerful

Some of the most heartfelt ceremonies I’ve witnessed were led by someone who truly knew the couple. When a friend officiates your wedding, it adds a layer of authenticity and intimacy that’s hard to replicate. They understand your inside jokes, your journey, and the shared moments that make your relationship one-of-a-kind.

Even if your friend isn’t a professional officiant, their personal connection to you can create a ceremony that feels real, warm, and completely tailored to who you are. They can speak to your relationship in a way that resonates deeply—not just with you, but with everyone in the room.

One of my most cherished experiences was officiating for my dear friends Gabby and Zach. I’ve known Gabby and Zach since before they started dating, I was cheering her on at her dance recital the year their story began. Years later, standing with them on their wedding day felt like watching a love story come full circle.

If you’re asking a loved one to officiate but they're nervous, Turning Pages Ceremonies offers one-on-one mentoring to guide them through writing, public speaking, and rehearsal support—so they feel confident, and you feel supported.

And if you’d rather leave it to the professionals? I try to treat all my couples like they’re Gabby and Zach—deeply known, fully supported, and celebrated with love.

From the beginning—Gabby’s recital, the year she and Zach met.

To the best day—officiating their wedding with a full heart.